Aging parents often wish to remain in their familiar home surroundings, enjoying independence and comfort. However, as health, mobility, and cognitive abilities decline, it’s essential to evaluate whether home is truly the safest environment for them or if assisted living might be a better option.
Understanding the Desire and Dangers of Parents Aging in Place
According to a survey by the AARP, 76% of older Americans would prefer to remain in their current home, but less than 50% believe they will be able to do so. Many seniors will eventually require assistance with daily activities such as cooking, shopping, doing yard work, and maintaining the home. Further, as your parents age, their vision, motor skills, and hearing may decline, and driving can become difficult or risky.
For married couples, it’s common for one spouse to take on more of the tasks of daily living, which can lead to resentment, depression, or rifts in their relationship. Adult children who step in to become caregivers find themselves in a role reversal, balancing their own family, job, and responsibilities, which can often lead to caregiver burnout.
Parents are often reluctant to ask for or accept help, not wanting to be a burden. Fear is also a factor, because admitting they need help means that things will inevitably change. They might feel angry or embarrassed about not being able to maintain their independence and control over their own lives. This can lead to parents hiding information about their physical or mental well-being.
Lastly, the family home, once suitable for a growing household, may not be safe or accessible for aging parents. Modifications like grab bars or main-floor bedrooms might be necessary, which can require changes that may be daunting and costly. Read AARP’s recommendations on making a home safer for seniors.
Aging at Home vs Assisted Living
For older adults needing only occasional help, staying at home may be a viable choice. However, as care needs escalate, hiring home health can serve as a temporary solution. An unforeseen health crisis or caregiver burnout may necessitate an urgent move. In contrast, transitioning to an assisted living community can provide a structured environment that supports aging in place while ensuring safety and comfort.
At Cappella Pueblo West, our senior assisted living is designed to provide personalized support tailored to each resident’s unique needs. We offer a range of services, from assistance with daily activities like bathing and dressing to medication management and wellness monitoring. Our dedicated staff is available around the clock, ensuring that residents receive the care they need in a compassionate and respectful manner.
In addition to personalized assistance, our program offers an array of amenities, including beautifully landscaped outdoor spaces and inviting common areas, Cappella Pueblo West fosters a sense of community and belonging, making it an ideal choice for aging parents to age in place with dignity and support.
The Changing Face of Assisted Living for Aging Parents
Today’s assisted living communities are redefining the traditional perception of senior care. No longer viewed as nursing homes or hospital environments, communities are vibrant and engaging environments where seniors can thrive. At Capella Pueblo West, we embrace the 5 Pillars of Wellness: Social, Intellectual, Inspiration, Physical, and Emotional. This holistic approach is woven into our daily activities and programming, ensuring that residents experience a fulfilling lifestyle.
The Rhythms of Life Enrichment program is a cornerstone of community life at Capella Pueblo West. This program is designed to cater to the unique preferences and needs of each resident, promoting engagement across all five pillars. Through a mix of social events, educational opportunities, wellness activities, and creative workshops, residents are encouraged to connect with others, pursue their interests, and maintain their physical health.
For instance, our social events foster a sense of community and friendship, while intellectual pursuits such as book clubs and educational seminars stimulate mental engagement. Physical wellness is prioritized through fitness classes and outdoor activities, allowing residents to stay active and healthy. Additionally, our creative events – like art classes or music therapy – nurture emotional expression, enriching the overall quality of life for aging parents.
One obstacle in the decision to age in place at home is the maintenance and upkeep of one’s home. Assisted Living at Capella Pueblo West offers a maintenance-free lifestyle where residents can socialize and access personalized care when needed – all within a community designed to foster independence and connection.
Residents can live as independently as they choose, with support readily available as their needs evolve. With various floor plans to choose from, your aging parents can find an apartment that truly feels like home.
Is it Time for Assisted Living?
While many older adults look forward to retirement, they may find themselves facing isolation and loneliness. Aging in place at home can sometimes lead to a loss of independence weather than its preservation. Cognitive decline and mobility challenges can make activities of daily living (ADLs) difficult and frustrating.
Recognizing the signs that it may be time for assisted living can be challenging. Unexplained weight loss, neglecting hygiene, forgetting bills or medications, struggles with familiar technology, and increased anxiety or depression are all indicators that assistance may be needed. Addressing these needs proactively can make the transition smoother for both your aging parents and your family.
The decision to move to an assisted living community is significant, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. It’s better to be proactive and begin weighing the options before it becomes an urgent need. We invite you to take a live tour or contact us for more information to explore the best options for your aging parents.
